prayer for a friend

Hey girls, I have a prayer request for a close friend of mine here in Columbus. I would really appreciate it if you guys would remember to keep Jessica in your prayers as she and her husband are really needing it right now. Jessica is about 20 weeks pregnant and went to her routine ultrasound appointment yesterday to find out the sex of the baby. She called us (all the moms at playgroup) to say that the tech saw something concerning but couldn't say what. So she was dropping Hannah (her 2 yr. old daughter) off with one of us so they could go to the doctor alone in case it was bad news. The ultrasound showed a cystic hygroma (fluid-filled sac), heart defect, and a cleft palate. They met with a specialist ysterday afternoon and had some tests done to determine exactly what the chromosomal abnormality is, we're still waiting. But it looks like it might be Trisomy 13. Long story short... Jessica's options are to induce delivery which will cause the baby to pass away early, wait for the baby to pass away in utero, or wait for delivery in which case the baby will most likely pass away within 24 hours. Needless to say, Jessica is struggling. I have posted a portion of the email she sent us last night so you can see a little more what she is dealing with. I kow this is a downer kind of post and I apologize for that. But I'm needing my girls who know and love Jesus and who believe in miracles the way I do to bring Jessica and her baby and family to the throne room of God and ask for a miracle, for peace, for strength, comfort, and ultimately, for God's will in this situation. Thank you girls.

"We found out we are having a little girl! Unfortunately, the Dr found the same abnormalities the tech found this morning. He thinks it's probably Trisomy 13, although she doesn't show text book results from any of the common problems. We did an amnio and a rapid test. We will know the rapid results on Friday. If it is one of the common conditions, we will know then. If it's not, we will wait for the amnio in 7-10 days. If it's nothing in that test, then it's genetic and there will be more testing. At this point, we are just waiting for the results. Our options seem to be inducing early (baby will definitely pass away), carrying until the baby passes in-utero then delivering, or she could go to term and would probably pass away anyway. My instinct is to just wait and let God take her when he's ready, but the thought of carrying her knowing she will die is so hard. I even hesitated taking a pain pill for my head today until I realized I can't really harm her at this point. That's a horrible feeling to have.She was very stubborn during the Ultrasound. Her head was jammed down far into my pelvis, her legs were closed, her feet and hands were by her face. At one point she grabbed her foot with her hand and tried to put both in her mouth. It was so cute, but so hard to watch at the same time. It was especially difficult to see her cleft lip. And when they were talking about her heart, I couldn't watch anymore. All I could see was a beating heart and hearing them talk about what's wrong with it was too much. I just want to hold her and tell her I'm so sorry. I can't believe this is happening. Thank you all for supporting me through this. I may not want to talk much, but writing is easier for me. Dan's mom is trying to come here to help for a little while. If she makes it in, we won't need as much support in the way of babysitting and meals, but I will let you all know when she arrives. Until then, I really appreciate everything. "

Frisco, CO - Here we come!

Here is where we are staying. I just wanted to get you more excited. :)

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,490926,00.html

See you soon!

big boy

Isaac is 3 months now and is starting to get a little more of his personality. He's finally interacting more and was in an especially good mood this day. It's just so good to see my baby smiling because he's been so uncomfortable with his reflux problems that we were starting to to wonder if he could smile. Isaac still needs prevacid, but seems to be doing much better these days. yay!

3 weeks...

... till the big trip.
Just thought I would throw that in there.
Can't wait to see you all!

na, na na, na na, na.... (add mocking tone in your head)

So, I had mentioned that Josh was rotating in Michigan the past two weeks for a urology spot up there. We were officially offered the position this week and will be moving to start his new program by July 1. My mocking blog title is meant to make you all feel jealous that I get to live within 15 minutes of Nathan and Liz for the next 3 years (unless they move for some reason). =) We are very excited that Josh is getting to do the specialty he really enjoys and will have tons more time with us from July on. He'll still be working 9-12 hour days and taking call. But that is a HUGE improvement from the 16 hour days, plus 3 out of 4 weekends a month and constant call that he's doing now. We'll actually get to eat dinner together as a family most nights (and won't have to wait until 9 pm to do it.) We are obviously dreading trying to sell our house in this market and know we'll be taking a big loss financially. And moving SUCKS with 3 kids, but our quality of life will impriove dramatically. And we are very excited about being near a fellow sapphire and her beautiful family. =) So that's the update for us. We would sincerely appreciate prayers that God would provide a buyer for our house quickly and would provide for us financially during this whole moving process. Also, please pray that the kids would adjust to the changes well. Seth especially does not handle change very easily and he's old enough to have his little group of friends in Columbus that he will have to say goodbye to and that will be hard for him. (I'm not gonna lie... it'll be hard for us too). So thanks for the prayers girls. And Liz and I think you should find reasons to hit the Michigan area for a visit now that there's two of us in one spot. =)

tumor... be gone!

Hey girls!
So remember several months ago, right around when baby Meg was due, I told you all about this tumor i found in my breast? The biopsy ended up showing A-typical cells but no cancer. Well, today we made the decision to take that little tumor out! So, after the reunion i will have it removed. The surgeon really left it up to me... either we could continue to check it every 3 months or we could just take it out. And since i have no fear of removing things that don't belong in my body, i said "let's get it out of there and be done with it."
Remember to do those monthly self breast exams girls! Hopefully you don't find it annoying that i mention that... but it's really very important and i care about you all so much that i would want you to know immediately if you had a lump. I just love you all that much!

Hoping for a better 2009

Hi ladies,

I was hoping this would be a good post with some happy news. However, things went a little south on Monday. I found out I was pregnant at Thanksgiving. I was waiting to tell everyone when I had a heart beat and some more convincing pictures. We went in last Tuesday for our first ultrasound. The technician seemed a little concerned, but really didn't say much. She said that I measured 6weeks 3day. She checked with one of the doctors and they had us come back on Monday for another ultrasound. When we went in on Monday the concern seemed greater. They had us stick around to talk to a doctor - and that's when we got the sad news. After a week, I still was measuring at 6 weeks 3 days. They said that we should have had a heart beat last week, but they thought they'd give me another week. So, after a panic attack on my part and lots of tears in the office, I finally understood that my baby had stopped growing probably a few weeks ago. My body hadn't figured it out yet, so it was considered a missed-miscarriage. I went for a D&C yesterday. God has given me such a peace in my heart. I know that He has a plan for my life, at the moment, I don't understand it completely, but I know He is in charge. This pregnancy we a bit of a miracle because I had just begun taking steps to use Clomid but then my cycle never started.

So... now we are back to square one: Trusting that God has a plan for our life. I'm excited to see you all soon. I can't wait to hug you all.

A little update

So Adam and Violet and I are official for Colorado as well. We're flying in the Saturday before for some family time and then we'll leave Violet at Nana's, which will be the first time she's been anywhere overnight without us. But I think I'm ready for that. :)

We actually ended up getting our reunion tickets for free through Southwest with vouchers they sent us because of our travel issues over Christmas. Our original flight to Denver was canceled and there were all kinds of time-consuming issues to follow. We ended up getting home around 2am and having to be back at the airport the next morning at 8. But we still got to Colorado via Phoenix and Adam still got to go to his Broncos game on Sunday, so all was well.

In other news, Adam is switching departments at Demand. He's now working as a senior marketing manager, which seems to suit him great. It's more of a horizontal move, but hopefully will have a better hours than the 12 hours a day he has been working. But we will see.

We all just got over brushes with the flu and Vi is still a little snotty faced. But I think the worst is over. She got pretty sick on Christmas Eve night, which was kind of scary. But she felt well enough to tear into her Christmas presents the next day. :)

Miss you all lots!

new prayer request

Hey girls,

We have a new prayer request if you all think of it during your prayer time. It's a good thing, don't worry. =) Josh has been offered the opportunity to do a rotation in Detroit, MI in a urology program that he is applying to. He got a call out of the blue the other day from a surgical resident he had worked with in Columbus who had transferred this year to the urology program in Detroit. She said her program was looking to add a new spot and wanted to know if Josh was still interested in urology. We are and so he will be doing a 2 week rotation up there starting Jan. 12. We are wanting prayer that we just end up wherever God wants us and that if this is His will, it would work out. Urology is appealing because the hours are significantly more family friendly than general surgery and the pay is actually a lot better too once he would be practicing (which means we could pay off school loans faster, woohoo!). The move would be really rough though because we love Columbus and have a great set of friends here who offer an enormous amount of much-needed support to me and the kids. Plus, selling the house would be a nightmare I'm afraid. We would definitely have to take a loss on it (with our current U.S. economic state) and that would hurt financially. The move would only put us about 2.5 hours away from my parents, which wouldn't be too bad. And Josh's mom has already said she's moving with us if it works out. So at least I would still have some babysitting help. =) Anyways, we just want to be where we are supposed to be and need some prayer that that happens and that if we do need to move, that it would go smoothly with house selling, finances, etc. Thanks girls and Merry Christmas!

whatever

Jen, I'm currently annoyed that you are getting 7-8 hours of sleep at night. I have probably not gotten 7-8 hours of sleep in the last week total. Isaac has reflux pretty badly and I'm starting to lose my mind. Last night I left him crying in his swing at like 5am and Josh said I woke him up, told him to take care of Isaac, said something about throwing the baby out the window, and then stomped upstairs to Seth's bed. Josh calmed him down for like 20 minutes, but then he had to go to work. So I had to come back and take care of him again. Anyways, this is my first baby like this and I can't take it much longer. We got a prescription for the reflux for him. We're just waiting for the insurance to get Isaac added to our plan so that it can be covered. I just can't handle this with my 3rd kid. Because no matter how badly my night goes, I have to be up at the freaking crack of dawn with two toddlers. And Seth doesn't nap anymore, so nor do I. And unfortunately, I also lack a husband who is ever home to help. And I feel bad asking for help at night when Josh has to get up at 5am everyday and work a 16 hour shift. Well that's enough of my gripe session. I'm just tired. On a good note though, Isaac weighs 12 pounds and is in the 95 percentile for weight and the 90 percentile for height. He's a big, healthy boy. The other kids are doing well. They still love the baby and are oblivious that he is the reason for them being ignored lately. Seth seems to have developed an adorable little crush on a little girl his age that we play with a lot. Her name is Brenna. I don't know that it's really a crush, but he definitely loves playing with her. Every time we leave them, Seth talks all day about missing Brenna. And then yesterday we went to our playgroup Christmas party. Vicki came over to watch the kids while I took Isaac to a Dr. appointment. She asked Seth what he did that day and he said "I played with Brenna." So Vicki said "Do you like Brenna?" Seth said "yes, I love Brenna." Then Vicki said "What does Brenna look like?" Seth thought about it for a second and then said " a princess." It was adorable.

Well, I hope you all are having a wonderful holiday. We miss you all and are very sad that we will not be joining you in Colorado. =( Have a great weekend!

snow and ice

I'm guessing all of us are getting some effects of this storm raging across the U.S.! Last night, we got hit with freezing rain, sleet, and finally this morning, snow. Thankfully, and Praise God!, we are not without power. I've been praying about this storm since i heard it was coming knowing that Chris would be out of town and if power went out, we'd be searching for a friend with power or a fireplace. So, as i said, Praise God that we didn't loose power dispite all the ice.
Liz, so glad Katie's doctor appt went well. I'll be praying now that baby Katie takes on some of baby Megumi's eating habits. Meg's edging on 13 pounds and takes 6 ounces of formula every 3 hours during the day! I also have to brag on her, that she's sleeping 7-8 hours through the night these days! yea! Megumi is just itching to meet her aunties! Everyone stay healthy and safe out there in this storm!
oh, did you know that one inch of rain equals 12 inches of snow!!??!! I found that to be quite amazing!

White Christmas

So, we're definitely guaranteed a white Christmas this year. We've got quite a winter storm going on outside the doors of my warm, cozy house. We're expecting about a foot of snow by this afternoon in my area. Nathan had to go into work. Had there been more snow early this morning he would have worked from home. But as it is, I will be worrying this afternoon when he makes the treacherous drive home. But all the kids are enjoying an early start to their Christmas vacation. We're also expecting more snow this weekend, and again on Christmas eve. I'm all for a white Christmas, but this is a little much.

All else is well here. We're busy getting ready for the holidays next week...cleaning, wrapping, cooking, taking care of last minute things. But it's fun. Katie saw the pediatrician yesterday, and it was kinda fun to have him so pleased with her progress and development after all we've been through. However, we are finding ourselves back to having weight checks. She's only 15 pounds 0 ounces at 9 months old. SO with only a 2 ounce weight gain over the last 2 months, we're needing to be a bit more vigilant with that again. It's hard as she's so active now, and much prefers to play over eating. We're trying to supplement with some formula, although she's a bit of a breastmilk snob. But we'll manage to pack on some more pounds somehow:)

Anyway, I hope you all have a very Merry Christmas! And do you all realize it's only 2 months until we all meet again? Wow, that's coming fast!

Yeah and Hooray

I'm so glad to see everyone is official!!! :) I'm getting so excited. I will call you all this coming week and let you know the totals and such. Keep the pictures coming. I may need a little help with the scrapbook - there is so much that has happened. I hope you all have a wonderful day! Love you!

we're official too!

just got our plane tickets for the reunion too! We're flying in the Sunday prior to the reunion so Chris can spend some time with his partner. Here's a pic of Megumi I took yesterday - 7 weeks already, and Kim, yes, i know how you feel saying all those cheesy phrases - time just goes so quickly!

One year old

I really can't believe how fast time has gone and I know I sound cliche but there's really no other way to say it. Parenthood does that. You suddenly find yourself saying all these cheesy and ridiculous things you never thought you would say. And don't even get me started on the singing and dancing required to cheer up a sick one-year-old.

She's pretty much over her cold, but you can still see a little snot leaking out in the picture. Priceless. We're doing a big party in Colorado this weekend and we already had a little party when my mom was here, so tonight it will be just me, Adam, Violet, and Elmo.

Hope you all have safe holiday travels! Love you girls!

We're official!

Well, it's official...we've got our tickets to Colorado! I found a really good deal...almost a fluke really. It was God that I even saw it, because it won't be there long I don't think. So anyway, we're super excited for fun, friends, snowboarding, and girl time (well, Nathan's not as excited about girl time as I am:).

Before & After...

The Living Room...

The Dining Room...

Our Bedroom...

So these are the main areas that we painted and did work to. I'll send the rest of the pics of the house via Kodak email.

Hope to have you all over sometime so you can see it in person.

Shutterfly sale

I haven't tried this yet, but a friend just sent me a code to get up to 50% off and free shipping at Shutterfly through the end of today. The discount code is: SECRET3.

And I just ordered our Christmas cards through a different service ... darn.

:)

Yay for 4am shopping!

I also did the 4am craziness on Black Friday, and thoroughly enjoyed it. Nathan was on baby duty while I did lots of shopping and got some pretty good deals. I may try some online shopping for the remaining items though.

We have also gotten quite a bit of snow over the past couple weeks. It's pretty much useless to me now that I don't hope for a snow day every time there is a little flake in the sky. But it is pretty, and snow in small amounts if fine I suppose.

I hope everyone had a good Thanksgiving. Ours was nice, although Katie got her first full-blown cold that day, and proceeded to snot all down the front of her pretty new dress. Oh well. She's doing better, but now I've got a full-blown sinus infection. So kind of her to share. I hope to feel better by tomorrow, because taking care of a baby while sick is so not fun! Ok well, it's nice to hear from everyone and see that we're all sharing in holiday cheer and spending:)

For all the online shoppers...

I was introduced to a website by Joe Caswell and apparently it usually has the best prices for electronics. Plus there's no tax cause it's based in a state that does not have sales tax. Anyway, if you're looking for the latest and greatest in electronics this holiday season, check out www.newegg.com. And to boot they have free shipping.
As for me, I'm one of those crazy people who get up at 4am and do all my shopping on black Friday. This year was no different - what a blast!

As far as the snow goes... we unexpectedly got about 2-3 inches the weekend before thanksgiving. I was very shocked when I walked outside at 6am to go to work. Not so much a fun surprise at that time of day.

Well... happy shopping to you all.

Sleigh bells ring...

Just wanted to weigh in fast with our weather report out in Cali. The temperatures are really falling out here, too. I think we got all the way down into the upper 60s yesterday. I even had to wear a sweater.

However, on the flip side, you will all be laughing at me when I shiver myself to death in Colorado in a few months. Can't wait!

Oh, and I ditto the whole shopping online thing. Last year, I was as big as a Christmas tree myself, so we did all of our shopping online. I am fully intending to do the same this year. I found quite a few great deals on www.etsy.com -- they have all handmade things, so they're all one of a kind. And a lot of the sellers feature free shipping for the holidays.

If anyone else has any great sites to pass along, I'd love to see them. I'm always looking for a deal. :)

motherhood and Christmas Shopping

We also got a little snow today. It is freezing and disgusting outside. And we are starting to get Christmas gifts figured out for our children. Let me just say that I have not really gone Christmas shopping in a store since Seth was born. It's all online these days. And for those of you newer moms this Christmas season, I will pass on a website that I have used lots in the past for Christmas gifts. Babycenter.com has some more unique and educational toys. I'm sure you girls have already heard of it. but I did get a coupon code in my email today for free shipping today and tomorrow in case any of you are interested. Just go to www.babycenter.com and use the coupon code "FREESHIP!" =) Happy Christmas shopping in your pjs and the warmth of your own house!

snow?? let it stop!

Jamie, I commend your enthusiasm about the snow you are missing. We, however, are not excited about the snow we recceived this last weekend. Something about slippery parking lots, Christmas shopping, and carrying a car seat does not enthuse me. I'm seriously considering holiday shopping online! Our dogs however, could not be happier about the snow. the added benefit for Nobu is that his allergies are officially over so he won't be chewing on his paws anymore. The dogs will chase each other through the snow for hours if we let them. they play a game similar to 'hide and seek' but they don't hide... they just freeze and pretend the other one can't see them until...WHAM they run directly after one another and collide, sprawling themselves all through the snow.
well, i got my AFLAC claims and so can now plan our travels to Colorado. Chris and i will be there early (sunday prior) so Chris and Peter can work together. We will have Megumi with us too. i'm looking forward to seeing you all!

Snow Report

Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow!!!

Right now I'm sitting in Chattanooga, GA wishing I was at home to see the snow fall. We haven't had any this year -- that I've seen -- and I'm missing it right now! PLUS -- I'm missing you. I had a dream last night that you were all down the street from me, and it took me forever to get together with you all. Angie -- your hug in my dream was so real, I can't wait to get one for real. :)

I just wanted to give you an update on the slopes to get you excited about our trip. I know it is still far away and we have Christmas coming, but if you want to send any money towards the trip - let me know! They will let us make a payment anytime. Our final payment is actually due Jan 10. I think I told you the 15th - which will also be ok. Anyhoo...back to the snow report: Breckenridge has received 9" in the last 48 and Keystone has gotten 7". And just think - we haven't even gotten into the snowy season here yet. To see pictures check out this site: www.snow.com.

I hope you all had a wonderful and filling Thanksgiving! I can't wait to see you all soon.

Love you lots!

Happy Turkey Day!

thoughts

Hey there! Liz, I just wanted to say that I'm so glad Katie's surgery went so well and that she seems to be recovering comfortably. I'm also so sorry about your grandpa and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You really did have a rough week. Everything is good here. I'm getting settled into life with 3 kids under the age of 3. The biggest challenge is that Seth and Lilah love to antagonize each other and just torture one another and I simply don't have time to referee right now. And they usually choose the times when i'm nursing to need something or attack each other. =) Isaac is doing well. He's big and healthy. My biggest challenge with him is that he has an insatiable appetite. The kid is constantly starving! I'm making plenty of milk. But he just wants to nurse like every hour! I don't have time for that either. =) But we've been blessed with family helping out this last week and friends here in Columbus are bringing us meals until the middle of December. They're also calling me like daily to see if I need them to pick anything for me at the store, etc. What a blessing! The labor and delivery went well. They started me on the pitocin and after a couple hours, the contractions were diminishing as the pitocin increased. So I asked for my edidural and had them break my water and we had the baby within 2 hours. I pushed for like 10 minutes and Isaac was strong and healthy and I only had a 1st degree tear. yay! This is significantly better than the 3rd degree tear I had with Seth. =) Isaac has been a little jaundice and has been a bit finicky with breast feeding. But we're getting it figured out. So, that's it for us at this point. thanks for all your thoughts and prayers this past week. Love you girls!

Katie's Surgery

Thought I'd give a quick update on Katie's progress, and say thanks to everyone for praying for her. Katie's surgery went very well. The surgeon even made the decision during surgery that we didn't have to stay in the hospital overnight because he felt the probability of having any bleeding problems was very low. Yay! She was pretty out of it Wed night and still on Thurs as well, which was actually good, so she was less active and less likely to irritate the area. She hates her arm braces, and we only make her wear them to sleep now, as she really doesn't touch the incision sites. We just have to modify what we're doing for a couple weeks....no rough play, no belly time for a little while, no leaving her alone except when sleeping (this one is tough on mommy), etc, but we're coping well. Katie doesn't even seem to be in any pain, and only has a tiny bit of swelling. We took her off the tylenol with codeine today, and she's doing really well without it at all so soon (not even regular tylenol). We super proud of out little tropper. I added an album to her website for the surgery, and included a "before" pic, and will update with "afters" once the stitches are gone.

In other news, everything also went well with the wake and funeral for my grandpa. It was a really long and tough week for my family, but we got through it. Because Katie did so well, we were able to make it to a little bit of the wake, and to the funeral on Friday. It all went well, and thankfully, my grandma was really with it and did really well for everything (she has Parkinson's which has caused pretty bad dementia). So we all survived the week and appreciate the everyone's thoughts and prayers.

New House...

First of all... Liz so sorry to hear about your grandfather and your unsettling week ahead. We'll be praying for you, your family and Katie.

And to Josh & Julie - congrats on your latest addition - what a cutie he is.

Now for an update from PA - we are officially home owners. We settled on our house October 27th and spent that week doing some minor repairs, drywall touch ups and painting. We got everything done that we wanted to and moved in on November 1st. I think you all got the email I sent of the moving day.

Everything is great and we are definitely enjoying our new house. I'll be emailing you all pics very soon, but for now, here's a little taste to wet your appetite.

In other news - I'm starting a new job this week. I'm going to be working for a friend at at market stand in Delaware. It will be Fridays and Saturdays only, but they will be long days. I'm planning on working Mon-Thurs at Millcreek (our family business) through the end of this year, but plan on making a change soon after that. I haven't found anything to take its place yet, but I've been looking around and keeping my eyes and ears peeled for a good opportunity.

Rough week

First of all, congrats Julie! Issac is adorable and we can't wait to see more pics. And good luck settling in. You're a brave woman...3 kids ages 3 and under:)

So this is shaping up to be a pretty rough week for us, and it's only Tuesday morning. On Saturday (ok, technically last week, but close enough), Katie pulled a Humpty Dumpty on me. Yes, she had a great fall, from the changing table to the floor. It is true what they tell you, it only takes a second. She fell head-first on the floor, which is thankfully newly carpeted with a decently thick pile. She is ok. We had half of the Waterford emergency personnel in my family room, and she's fine. Who knew that when you call 911, and they tell you she's probably fine, but will send someone out to look if you'd like, that if you say yes, you end up with an entire street full of emergency vehicles, and 6 firemen/paramedics? I did not know, but I know now. We were all very shaken up, but Katie was her normal self after a bottle...alert, nosy, flirting with firemen (what girl wouldn't?), anxious to play. Thank God.

Then last night my grandfather passed away, unexpectedly, but not unexpectedly, if that makes sense. My cousin, who has been staying with him due to health problems, came home and found him passed out on the bathroom floor and not breathing. They obviously performed lifesaving techniques and took him to the hospital, but he didn't want life support or anything like that, so he passed away. He wasn't doing well lately, so it wasn't a shock. But at the same time, it was a bit of a shock because no one thought it was that imminent. Fortunately, Katie and I went down to visit him and my grandma last week, so I do feel like I got to see him, and he got to see Katie again. So the wake is scheduled for Wed and Thurs, and the funeral for Fri.

Also, Katie's surgery is tomorrow for her hemangioma. I've been thinking about it as little as possible lately, but I can't get away from it now. I'm more nervous and scared than I thought I'd be. It's just upsetting to know she'll be in a lot of pain afterward. We've decided to take off two, the one on the neck and one on her clavicle (we're leaving the one on her abdomen because I don't want the scar there, and I also don't want to inhibit her motorically more than necessary). The hospital will keep us overnight, so I'm hoping she'll be discharged Thurs morning, but you never know with that stuff. We're believing for a surgery with no complications, no bleeding problems, and a quick and easy recovery. I'm just hoping Katie is back to her normal self soon. So please keep us in prayer for these things this week. It's going to be a long week and I can't wait until it's over.

update

Hey ladies,
Everything is going good here at our house. Megumi continues to change every day, sleep during the day, and likes to be wide awake at night! At her 2 week doctor appointment, she had gained all her weight back and grew a whole inch. She likes to pee when we change her diaper, and poo as soon as i get her pants back on. Yesterday I went through 3 diapers in 3 minutes, geesh! This week we made the very emotional decision to switch to formula. I nursed Meg for 2 full weeks, and as she was growing, i couldn't produce enough milk to keep her from screaming all night long. She would nurse for over an hour and still be hungry... but by then i was empty! So, after a week of sleepless nights filled with a screaming, unhappy baby... we switched to formula. And now, i have a happy, content little girl with a full belly! Here's a picture of the world's most beautiful baby! Oh, and with the birth of Meg, I think i forgot to update you all on the biopsy results of the breast tumor... the cells are A-typical but non-cancerous. I have a follow up with the surgeon in January, and expect to have another ultrasound then to see if and how is has changed. ok, on with the pictures!

update

Hey girls, I'm gettings bored of checking the blog and there being no new posts. So I guess I will post something. There's not a whole lot happening here. But I did have a my doctor appointment today. I'm 37 weeks now and am scheduled to be induced at 8am on Monday (the 17th). As of now, I am dilated 2-3 cm and am 50% effaced. My fundal height is measuring 41 weeks. That makes me a little nervous. I'm hoping this one isn't too big for me to deliver vaginally. I'll keep you girls posted as we get to the time next week. =)

no baby

more stretch marks, an insanely itchy belly, a few sleepless nights, and still no baby! Tomorrow i'm 41 weeks, and will have an ultrasound and non-stress test. still not dilated at all as of tuesday.

Some pics

So when we were in Ohio last month, we had Sarah Newman take some family pictures. I just got the disc this week and wanted to post a few. The rest are at Flickr (http://www.flickr.com/photos/kaylind/sets/72157608120191441/), in case you want to see them.


I was incredibly impressed with all her creative ideas and I love all the expressions of Violet that she caught. She also managed to get pictures of my dad smiling, which means she must be magic.



I know it's early, but these pictures have me excited to make our Christmas cards this year!

Love you girls -- hope you have great weekends!

4 Months!

Hi girls!

Only 4 more months until we meet in Frisco! I am getting very excited. Nick and I went up to the mountians two weekends ago, and found the house we are staying in. The pictures on our Wiki site show it perfectly. We are within walking distance from the free shuttle that can take you to Breckenridge, Copper, Dillion or Keystone. (Anyone up for some night skiing? Keystone is your place!) We are getting so excited!!!

I do have an offer for you all - if you would like to make another 25% payment over this next month, I can send that up to them. Nick and I were talking and realized with all this finiancial talk in the media, it is going to be benefical for us to begin to slowly set aside some money. :) Let me know if you want to do that... I'm keeping track of what each of us sends for the house.

Let's see... nothing else is going on in our lives. I've been on Fall Break last week and this, which has been wonderful. I have been working on our scrapbook this week and it is coming together nicely. I need more pictures from you all. If you could send me, or direct me to, a picture or two from each event since this summer.

I love reading about all that is happening in your lives! I love you lots and can't wait to see you.

Pictures of our trip to Beaver Creek (about 60 miles beyond Frisco)

Surgery Scheduled

Ok well, Katie had her appointment today with the plastic surgeon, who said that the hemangioma on her neck is a good candidate for removal. I was very impressed with everyone in his office, and they were all excellent with Katie. It was the first appointment for her hemangioma that hasn't resulted in screaming and tears. On the contrary, she was quite happy and everyone loved her (I have my suspicions that it was also attributed to Nathan being there...what is it about girls and their daddies?). Anyway, he was very good and will take it right off, and offered to take the other two on her torso off as well. Nathan and I are thinking about that, but don't want her to have even more scars. There is one other large-ish one on her clavical that we might do...mostly because the large ones are scarier with ulceration.

So they've scheduled her surgery for Nov 19. I'm a little bummed it's so close to Thanksgiving because I know she'll still be in pain, and she has to wear braces on her arms which prevent her from bending at the elbows so she doesn't mess with the dressing. I was hoping to have it done sooner than that, but it could be worse. At least it's not close to Christmas I suppose. She will be kept overnight. Definitely keep her in prayer that week. It is a serious surgery, as hemangiomas are blood-filled, but they do more now than they used to. So I'm anxious and nervous, and hate having my baby on the operating table again, but relieved at the thought that hopefully, by Christmas this nasty experience will only be a memory. So we're just praying and believing for the surgery to go well, minimal bleeding, and an easy recovery.

Gramma Ruth and a lump

Hey ladies, I have my 39.5 week appt today and they will "check" me, so stay tuned for if i'm dilated at all!
Wanted to keep you posted on a couple of things going on with us right now. First, my step-grandma, Gramma Ruth, went to be with Jesus on Saturday morning. She had been in the hospital on and off for a few months now... congestive heart falure, infection in the kidneys, and pneumonia. Her lungs could no longer work to breathe through the fluid in her lungs, and she did not want to be put on a respirator. So she went to be with Jesus and her husband with 3 (of 4) of her children at her side. the fammily is doing visitation and funeral stuff today and tommorrow, but i could not travel to be there being so close to my due date.
Second, I had an ultrasound done today on my right breast. A month and a half ago I discovered a lump, which my OBGYN has been watching. It didn't change at all, which ruled out the possibility of it being a milk duct. The ultrasound showed today that it is likely a Fibroadenoma, a kind of tumor. You can read up on it yourself, but long story short, they are 95% of the time NOT cancer. I meet with a breast surgeon on the 23rd (next thursday) to see about getting a biopsy done. Girls, at this point, would you just pray that I would keep my heart/mind/soul focused on Christ and not on the circumstance? I would greatly appreciate that!!! We have enough to think about right now!
girls, please do your monthly breast exams!

good week

Hey girls! I'm glad to hear everyone seems to be good. Steph, I'm happy that you're procedure went well and that they found out was wrong and that it wasn't too serious. =) Although I'm very sorry about the diet changes you're having to make. Cutting out chocolate, caffeine, and tomatoes would just about kill me. I'm also so happy for you that you got into school and will be kicking off a great new educational adventure. I'm jealous, I love school. =) 

So things have been great for us this week. Josh has been on vacation and it's been wonderful. I had forgotten what it's like to have a husband who is rested enough to stay awake with me in the evening and watch a movie or talk or whatever. Josh is usually so exhausted that he gets home from work at 8 or 9pm and is alseep on the couch by 9:30pm at the latest (or studying, which still means I can't talk to him or bug him). He's gotten a couple things done around the house that needed to be done and we've done some fun stuff with the kids. We went to Cosi Science Center on Wednesday and watched a 3D movie called "Fly me to the Moon." About 3 little flies who hitch a ride to the moon with Apollo 11. The kids liked it and Lilah sat there the whole time trying to catch the flies or touch the space ship. It was funny. Then we went to the Sesame Street "Learn about the Body" exhibit. It was fun until seth got attacked be some crazy kid who clawed his face. They kind of got into a traffic jam going into a toy thing and the other boy clawed Seth's face. Seth was bleeding and has some pretty serious scratches on the side of his face and eye lids. It was crazy. We had to take him to the bathroom to disinfect his face since they were pretty deep finger nail scratches. Anyways, it was a fun day other than that. =) Today we went to the Zoo and it was an absoluetly gorgeous day for the zoo. The kids had a lot of fun and are now supposed to be sleeping (I emphasize the words "supposed to be.") Josh and I get to go on a date night tonight while his mom babysits and then tomorrow is a harvest festival that I think the kids will enjoy. That's abut it for us. It's been a nice week and I'm already dreading next week when Josh has to go back to work. I also posted some pictures of my belly since you asked for them, Kim. It's good you did because I think I would have forgotten to take any belly pics with this kid if you hadn't. You really do start to neglect your children more as you have more of them. =) I also posted a picture of Seth's face. It actually looks a lot better now (in the picture) than it did before. It was pretty bad on Wednesday. People were stopping and asking us about it then. He looked like we'd beat him. Anyways, hope you girls are good. Have a great weekend!

Results

So, everything seemed to go pretty well with the testing on Wednesday. They found out that I have a hiatal hernia, which is pretty good news considering the other possibilities. They also took biopsies of the tissue in my espophogus, stomach and colon. They said the tissue in the colon looked pretty healthy and they just took biopsies to "make sure" and to have a baseline for future colonoscopies. Now I shouldn't have to get another until I'm 35.

The hiatal hernia I have is basically part of my stomach that has come up above my diaphragm instead of the whole thing staying below it. Basically, what I can do is take my Prilosec OTC, and stick to a regimented diet that excludes any caffeine, chocolate, alchohol and even tomatoes, in addition to some others. They said that I can slowly reintroduce these things into my diet in order to see what upsets it.

So anesthesia is a funny thing. Here's a quick story of my experience with it. :-)

I was quietly laying in the scary room with all the monitors hooked up to me and I was patiently waiting for someone to come in and start the dreaded procedure. Finally, after about 25 minutes, the doctor poked his head in and said, "Ok, we're going to give you the medicine to make you go to sleep now." That was it. A few seconds later a nice looking nurse came in, didn't say a word to me, and injected something into the IV coming out of my arm. After a few seconds I realize I was getting a little fuzzy and it became more of an effort to blink. I squeezed my eyes shut and opened them again and the same nurse was right there. There were about 4 other people in the room at this time and they seemed very loud. I asked the nurse, "are you sure you gave me the medicine? I'm not going to sleep." She giggled and said, "Yes, honey. You're all done now. We're going to get you back into the recovery room." And that was it. I was done.

There are a few more stories of me not remembering things and repeating things two or sometimes three times that gave us a few laughs.
So that was my experience. Part of it, anyway.

And then I got a call that I got into school. And that made my week. I can finally feel some things coming together.
Ok, that's it. :-)

What a wonderful way to spend a day...

Hey ladies! It sounds like you all have a lot going on! It's so fun that everyone has been posting - its awesome to be able to feel a little more connected. Kim, you have done a great job updating our sacred site. :-)

So, as most of you know, I have been having stomach troubles again, similar to what I had in college, but it is now affecting my lower digestive tract as well. SO! Fun times for me, I am heading into the hospital tomorrow morning for a upper endoscopy and a colonoscopy. The doctors obviously have the "better safe than sorry" attitude because of my mom's colon cancer, so they decided to just go in and check out what's going on in there. Part of me hopes they find something, part of me doesn't. I would really like some answers, but I don't want it to be anything bad. And let me tell you, it better be worth it. :-) I don't know if anyone knows what the process is for colonoscopies, but it's horrible. Basically, you're drinking super-ultra-nasty laxatives for the whole 1/2 day before and spend the whole evening on the toilet. Sounds like a great way to spend the night, huh? But on the bright side, I'm almost done with my first Jane Austen book (Persuasion) and I'm really proud of myself. :-) It's not the easiest reading, so I feel a little smarter. Lol.

Anyway, onto more pleasant topics...I finally got my financial aid all set for school, which was my biggest concern. Yay! I am so excited to start back, even though I haven't been officially accepted yet. (hold on - gotta drink more nasty stuff...) I am hoping to get the acceptance letter in the mail this week since our orientation/registration is October 27th.

The other thing we're looking forward to is purchasing our tickets for Colorado! We've found a great deal on Southwest, but we have to wait until this Friday to purchase them, so let's hope the rates are still there!

OH! And we went to Branson, Missouri with some friends this past weekend and had a GREAT time. We stayed at a beautiful resort, which is what I enjoyed the most. It is in the Ozarks right on a huge lake. We did a little canoeing and hiking, mini golf and more hiking. It was gorgeous. As soon as I get pictures up, I'll post them on flickr or something. Ok...well that's enough of my rambling...Love you girls! Jen - I am anxiously awaiting your call/text about Megumi!

Da da dum...

So I think it's pretty much finished. I have a few tweaks I'd like to finish up here and there, but that will probably just be an ongoing process. This has been a lot of fun. I got to search back through all our old photos -- I found a bunch I had forgotten about and man did that bring back some memories. :) I'd love to scan in some of our old college photos to add at some point, but we don't have a scanner, so I guess I really can't.

We just got back from a weekend in San Diego. We went to an air show on Saturday, which was a lot of fun but very loud. And today we went to the Wild Animal Park. It was awesome. I know Violet won't remember anything, but she really seemed to enjoy it -- especially the petting zoo part. And okay, I loved the petting zoo too.

Anyway, let me know in the comments if there are any other websites I can add to our links area. I'm sure I'm missing some, and I'd love to include everything that's connected to our lives.

Also, if anything shows up weird on your computers, let me know that too. I haven't had a chance to test the new design on other browsers or computers or anything.

Jen, we'll be waiting anxiously for the call or text. Any day now!
Liz, keep us posted about Katie's appointments this week. We're praying for all of you.
Julie, you should post some pics of this supposedly huge belly. :) I hope we can make it back to Ohio to see Isaac when he's still a newborn. We're hoping to fit a trip in before the Sapphires ski trip.

Love you and miss you all!

Twenty Nine

Hi girls,
yeah, i made it to age twenty nine!
Julie and Kim, thank you both so much for the good tips for labor and packing! I have my labor bag all packed but have yet to finish the overnight bag for recovery.
Julie, I love what you wrote about starting your gym workouts after baby comes to take advantage of the time without kids... I, too plan on doing that very same thing! Gyms with child care... what a great idea! I can't imagine why a gym would not have child care, really.
I finally have a mother's line on the top half of my belly. And just to even things out on the bottom half, Megumi has blessed me with many late stretch marks.
Kim, love the new blog layout!
well, hopefully you'll hear from me soon!

nice website Kim!

Kim, I love the new website look. You're doing a great job on it! =) Liz, we've been praying for Katie and her hemangioma situation. Jen, we're so happy Chris is doing well and hope that you are as comfortable as possible for your last couple weeks of pregnancy. You asked for ideas of things to pack for the hospital... Take some munchies. You get meals, but I found that I had the munchies a lot with all the nursing. Take your nursing pads, nursing bras, and Lansinoh cream (believe me you'll need them if you start breastfeeding right away). Take a nursing cover of some kind. You will probably have lots of visitors and it can be really hard to coordinate nursing times when you actually have privacy. I also recommend taking your own pack of super absorbancy, overnight sized maxi pads. The hospital might provide you with plenty. But when I had Seth they only provided normal sized pads and I needed something with better coverage. Not to be gross or freak you out, but the bleeding following childbirth can be pretty intense for the first few days. Those are the biggies I think. Take your focus object for the labor and delivery to help with the pain. I'm sure you learned all about that in your childbirth class and it really does help. You'll do great! I hope the rest of you are doing well. Everything is same old thing here. Josh has been working quite a bit, as usual. He had a killer day yesterday where he started at 6am and then got stuck in surgery all day. He didn't get home until 9:30pm. His last surgery of the day was 6 hours long, so he was pretty sore and exhausted from standing that long. Altogether, he was stuck in the O.R. for 12 hours yesterday. yuk! I can't even imagine having to stand statue still under hot lights in full surgical garb for that long. I think I'd be done after an hour. =) Anyways, on a bright note Josh has a week of vacation next week. So that will be awesome. We're looking forward to doing some fun stuff with the kids around the Columbus area. And getting some things done around the house before baby #3 comes along. By the way, I think we've decided to name him Isaac Jase. I've just always liked the name, Isaac (means laughter). And Jase means Healer. So that's kind of our way of passing down something special to him in honor of his papa and Josh, and even my brother, Ben. Daniel likes to remind us that he is a healer of souls (he's the theology major brother). So, healing has kind of been the ministry/heritage of the men in my family. So, everything is good. We are pretty excited because we got a gym membership for a really good price last week. Josh has been using it. I won't start mine until january after the baby is born and I'm off restrictions. I certainly won't be working out right now as I'm barely waddling my way around the house, let alone excercising. I'm getting pretty huge and uncomfortable. I've finally hit that point where I can't really roll myself over in bed anymore. I can't reach my feet and am saving up for my one pedicure right before the baby comes (so that when my legs are in the stirrups and my heels are in the doctor's face, my feet will at least be cute.) If the baby kicks me wrong, I pee my pants and I have finally gotten stretch marks around my belly button. The third one has done me in. I will need my gym membership after this baby arrives because my "given birth to 3 babies" body is starting to fall apart. Not that I even need that as motivation to work out. The only motivation I need to go workout is that I get to take my 3 little monsters with me and drop them off in the kids program for 2 whole, glorious, child-free hours. I will workout and take a shower without any children screaming at me or each other. It will be heaven! So that's it for us. Just trying to keep up with Seth and Lilah and get things ready so that there will be no extra stress when Isaac finally arrives. I miss you girls and hope you're all doing great. Love ya!

Update

It's looking good already Kim! I'm glad some of us are technologically savvy. I think I do ok, but I'm definitely not into making things on the web look pretty. That's what my husband is for:) Although his current work has him just writing the code, but he's still pretty good on the design.

Ok well, I'm giving an update on Katie, and asking for continued prayer. The last week has been a nightmare with this hemangioma. It is till infected, despite the antibiotics. I had to take her into the pediatrician on Saturday (while I was supposed to be at a shower), where they did a culture and gave her another antibiotic. So now she's on two (neither of which has worked), and she's got tummy aches and aweful diarrhea from the antibiotics stripping her system (I've had to take her off all solid foods). So we were into the pediatrician again today (because the dermatologist wouldn't get me in before my next appt), where they said the culture was skewed because of the first antiobiotic, so they cut out one oral antibiotic and put her on a topical one. (sigh) One more thing to rub on her neck, which is painful. The good thing is that the pediatrician told me to call the dermatologist again and to make them get me in because he said so.

So we go in on Tuesday to see the dermatologist, and will see what he says. Everyone has a different opinion. The peds don't really like any of the options, but this waiting and seeing method isn't working too well at this point. And the more she ulcerates, the more scarring there will be down the road. And the more infections, the more she will become resistent to antibiotics. So my opinion is to do something. We will see. Anyway, continue to pray for poor little Katie who's little body all out of whack, and for wisdom with the dermatologist (and anyone he refers us to), and for wisdom for Nathana and I as we make this decision of a possible surgery for our baby. And also for sanity and peace for me, because I'm running on E these days.

On a quite and positive side note, we were at the neurologist yesterday for a check-up on her head (which went great and we don't need another MRI, which is fabulous because that means no unnecessary anesthesia...just another ultrasound), and while sitting in the waiting room there was a baby boy a bit older than Katie who was wearing a helmet. I don't know what what wrong with this adorable little boy (he seemed a bit delayed in motor skills), but I can't imagine it's a good thing if you're wearing a helmet and sitting in a neurologist's office. So that put things into perspective for me, and God always does when I'm freaking out. It can always be worse, and although difficult, Katie's medical problems are not life threatening at this point, and she is a smart little girl who is developing normally and will be able to live a great little life. And God always shows you there are those with bigger problems who you should be praying for instead of thinking about your own problems.

New design

I'm kind of working on a new layout for the blog. So things might look a little funk-a-delic for a few days.

Just FYI...

:)

Worth reading

Hi girls, I know we don't usually just post links, but this article is kind of amazing.

http://www.zenmoments.org/the-cab-ride-ill-never-forget/

If you get a chance, it's worth the read.

Love you all!

A Fib

Thank you lovely ladies who prayed for us today. Here's the low down on what happened!
10:30PM - chris woke me up and asked me to check his pulse. It was clearly irregular to me, and i was half asleep. I started to pray but Chris didn't let me finish. He got up and said "Meggie needs a daddy, let's go to the ER!" OK!
They discovered very quickly that chris' blood pressure and heart rate were too high for comfort, and diagnosed him immediately with Atrial Fibrillation - where instead of the top part of the heart having a definate pulse, it flutters. It causes the heart to work overtime (creating a high heart rate), and produces a very funny looking EKG. At the ER, they decided he would have to be transferred to their sister-hospital, about 5 minutes away, in order to be treated in a cardiac unit. they started some meds there while they registered him and found a bed at the other hospital.
3:00AM - after the meds, benadryl (we hada scare of an allergic reaction to the meds at first), and something else to calm him down, we began the transport to Trinity West campus, a hospital not far from our home in Rock Island.
4:00AM - after argueing with Chris for the last 4 hours, I finally submitted (though after 4 hours, can you really call it submission??) to Chris' wishes and headed home. He was admitted into the hospital and in his room at this point.
7:00AM - I woke up, made the necessary calls for prayer warriors, parents, and work places, showered (i think, anyway), and headed back to the hospital. Chris' parents were my first call and they both beat me to the hospital this morning.
12:00noon - I again, lost the battle to stay awake and headed home for a rest.
1:30PM - I had slept for about an hour and a half when Chris called me to tell me the doctor we had been waiting for, finally arrived to review Chris' case. As soon as he walked into Chris' room, the nurse at the heart-monitoring station yelled in "He's in normal sinus!" BAM, just like that, his heart re-set and started beating normally once again. I called everyone with the updates and we were told Chris may come home in a few hours. yea!
4:00PM - I arrived back at the hospital.
4:15PM - The results from a blood test were back (negative for whatever they were testing for) and Chris was told he was going home. yea!
4:20PM (I kid not... 5 minutes later!) - the nurse walked Chris, myself, and his parents out of the hospital.
We will have a follow up appointment with this A-fib specialist in 4-5 months. But very soon, chris will be completing a sleep study. One of the reasons A-fib can occur is from sleep apnea. that's the first thing they want to rule out. other reasons include: binge drinking (not our lifestyle), smoking (again, not us!), eating too large of a meal (ok, we all do this sometimes), or having an old heart i guess. For now, we were told that Chris can do whatever he feels like doing, which is sleeping and resting this evening. and of course, loose some weight, which we were both planning on doing in about 3 weeks or so anyway ;) His diet just starts now, and mine gets to wait.
So, for now, we are all home, healthy, and safe. Despite all the stress I had these last 24 hours, megumi seems to be doing very well. She's still kicking me, sticking out her butt, and having regular aerobic exercise sessions :) Hopefully next hospital visit will be for me, and will be a much more joyous occasion. thanks so much for praying today. I could feel all day that we were being held up in prayer, and i cannot tell you enough how much that helped get me through. We love you all.

New Prayer Request

Yes, you're not going crazy, we have yet another prayer request for Katie. I think you're all aware that she has the birth mark on her neck called a hemangioma. Well, about a week ago, two spots on it started to scab up and bleed. Hemangiomas can ulcerate, or bleed, so I was not surprised when this happened. It didn't seem to be too worriesome at first, and I had her pediatrician look at it, who referred me to a dermatologist. Well, now it's infected and her neck has broken out in a rash (not sure if the rash is related?). Anyway, she's on an antibiotic now, and I've been taught how to care for it while it's ulcerating. But it's a killer for me, because she screams when I wash it, or put ointment on it, and it's so hard to do something that you know causes your child pain, even though they need it.

So we're now faced with what to do about this. The appointment was good and confirmed a few things I had researched. This could ulcerate again in the future, so there are two possibilities. The first is to inject steroids into her neck, which I'm going to research some more, but I know oral steroids come with many problematic side effects, esp. for babies. I really don't want to do that. The other option is to have it surgically removed (Julie, you can tell Josh laser isn't an option for us because I guess it only affects the top 1-2 mm of the skin, and hers is a deep hemangioma). The dermatologist does know of someone he could refer me to. After meeting with him today and doing a lot of thinking, I think this is really the best option for us. She has a follow-up in 2 weeks, and at that time I'm going to push to be given the name of a surgeon. I'm nervous about it because it is the most extreme choice, but I just can't continue to deal with this over and over, and then decide to remove it. Plus, the more it bleeds, the more scarring it will leave. I hate the idea of surgery and recovery, and she's at such a difficult age to deal with it, but I think it would be best. The other thing is,we're really hoping to get it done before we have to change insurance Dec 1.

So if you could please keep this in prayer for us, we would greatly appreciate it. Just prayer for Katie as this is healing, and that the infection would go away quickly. And also for favor with the doctor when we go back. He didn't seem opposed to going that route, but of course they like to be as conservative as possible. But on the other hand, I've been conservative for 6 months, and now it's getting to be too much I think. Also, if we do have surgery, that God could just expedite the process so we could get it done in November.

I really appreciate the support in the past, and it's good to know we've got prayer cover for Katie.

Also, keep the updates coming. Jen, we're all waiting to see pics of little Megumi once she arrives.

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hello and good morning beautiful ladies!
Wow, hearing Angie talk about plane tickets makes me feel really out of sorts. It just doesn't seem like our Colorado reunion is that close! I suppose nothing in my mind really exists past October 19th. We have not purchased plane tickets yet simply because we are waiting for some frequent flyer miles to finish piling up before doing so... Chris flies to Denver non-stop quite a bit to see his partner, so we may be able to get out there without paying cash for our tickets. wouldn't that be nice!
So I have made my final Wal-Mart shopping list for things to pack for the hospital. Any of you moms who have been through it have any suggestions on what to bring?
better yet, any of you ladies tried doing this whole birthing thing without the assistance of drugs and have any advice for me!? i know, i know, i must be insane!
nothing going on here except waiting for little Megumi to come meet us. I'll be sure to text at least one of you as we go to the hospital, hopefully prior to the 19th of October :)
Miss you all, and truely wish you were surrounding me now as i get ready for this adventure. sure would be nice to have 6 extra aunts to help out around here :)

I guess we are committed...

So I started tracking the flights to Denver a couple of weeks again and found a good deal today. I got both Aaron and I's tickets for $438 and was ecstatic to see them under $300. I was expecting to pay more than $600 for our tickets, so when i saw the price today I couldn't put it off. So yea... We'll be there, not sure if we will be skiing or doing anything that costs money - but we will be there. :)

Update on the house... Things have been going very smooth and we are working on getting the last bits of paperwork in to finalize everything. Settlement is 10/27 and we plan on doing the painting and other stuff that week and then move in 11/1-2. I feel like God has been carrying us through this whole process and we are so looking forward to moving into the house He has just for us. Once we get in and settle I'll be sure to post some pictures. I can't wait!

See you all in Denver in just a few months!
Love you tons!

MS 150

OK, friends. It’s been a while. It’s been so good to hear your updates. Liz – Katie is getting SO big and she looks so great. What a miracle she is! Ang, you know I am totally thrilled for you and the new house adventure. You’ll have to keep me posted on that. I hope you and Aaron had great birthdays! I’ve got some stuff I need to send to you…
Jen, I am glad to hear your shower went well. I know we all wish we could have been there. Julie, I hope you’re doing well with baby #3! And keeping your sanity! Kim, I so enjoy your blogging and the pics you post on Flickr. I have been meaning to shoot an email back to you for a LONG time. Jamie – I hope the school year is going by without a hitch! Thanks again for all the planning you’re doing for our next reunion. I can’t tell you how excited I am for it! :-)

We’ve been busy, as usual, lately. I think you guys all knew that we were training for the MS 150 bike ride, so that took a lot of our free time. We finally had the ride this weekend, and it was really fun, albeit miserable at the same time. We got to ride through Ike, then a tropical storm, on Saturday. I only rode 70 miles that day, but Shawn did the whole 82. It was pouring for the last 3 hours and water was squishing out of my shoes with every pedal (and my padded shorts). We got to the recreation center that we were staying at, showered, dried off (yay!), then we had to head back outside to get food. It was all under tents, but the ground was so saturated that it was a swamp. After I ate the food that was soggy and cold, I decided that I didn’t want to do the next day. We weren’t sure if Ike was still going to be on us, or if we would get any sleep in the cold gym that we were sleeping in, and my emotions just couldn’t take it any more. We called some pretty dedicated friend of ours and they drove over to pick me up and take me home. Shawn is my hero, because he stayed and did another 65 miles on top of the 82 from the day before. Sunday was beautiful, but windy, which apparently made it 10 times more difficult than the day before. Shawn was out of commission for the rest of the day. :-) He did the WHOLE thing. I’m so proud of him. As soon as I get some pictures from the photographer, I will post them. I would do it again, crazy as it sounds. Next year, though, I’ll be in the middle of my internship, so I don’t think I’ll have time to train, but I plan on volunteering in the support staff. It was a great benefit and so fun (if I hadn’t been miserable, I probably would have really enjoyed it.) Lol.

So that was our weekend. We both took Monday off, and I really enjoyed having a day with little or nothing to do. Now it’s back to the grindstone – I’m at work all week. I have a baby shower that I’m throwing at work on Friday, so I’m preparing for that. I have my grad school interview on the 29th, so I’m preparing for that, too (if that’s possible). I’m also dealing with some stomach issues again and I’m seeing a specialist on Thursday. I think we’ll be deciding if I need further testing or not. We’ll see how that goes – I’m trying not to focus on it. Those are the big things, and of course the little things are still filling up our time, but I don’t feel as stressed at the moment as I did before. So, that’s me venting and sharing a little. Hope I didn’t bore you to tears! As much as I don’t write anything on here, I check it ALL the time. :-) I love you, my Sapphires!

Getting ready for fall...

So that's what we're doing around here. We spent a lot of time this summer working on our landscaping, which was a complete mess before. So now Nathan is trying to finish up some jobs before he packs it in for colder weather. It's nice to actually have grass now instead of weeds and some decent plants. Bella likes going potty and playing in the grass now too:)

Along with colder weather, I'm stocking up on warmer clothes for Katie, who seems to be growing all the time. I can't believe how heavy she's getting. When did she make that transition from being a little newborn baby to being a big, active baby? She's doing well. I spend much of this month going to countless doctor's appointments for her because she's due for routine checkups with all her specialists, and a few tests as well. I'm expecting everything to go well. She is becoming more active all the time, and I can really tell I'm going to be exhausted once she becomes mobile. Thank God for naptimes. And while her dexterity is lacking still, everything she gets in her hands finds its way right to her little mouth! I've been keeping up with her baby website if you want to see any pics.

Not too much else going on. We are looking forward to the fun stuff fall brings (and the newness of doing it with Katie), and going out to visit Nathan's family in October. The picture I included was taken Labor Day weekend when we went up north and stayed in a cottage. Katie really liked standing and sitting in the waves from the lakes. It was a nice relaxing weekend and a great way to end the summer:( But, I do have to say, the summer ending is not quite as sad for me as it used to be now that I'm not going back to work. While I miss it a little, I hear it's been a really rough start to the year with some tough kids, so I'm happy being home with my Katie-Bug.

Ok well, I've enjoyed the recent updates from everyone else. Keep them coming. Ang, keep us posted on the house. Jen, hang in there these last few weeks. Sleep, rest, and enjoy quiet times with Chris while you still can. And Julie, you keep us posted on baby progress too, and send pics of Lilah's b-day.

Finally some news...

For those of you who didn't know we were looking (casually), this will probably be a bit of a shock.

Apparently we bought a house. We weren't looking for very long, but got pretty excited about this one. It is the first one we put an offer on and we feel we got a really good deal. Things went very fast. We really only started looking seriously about 2-3 weeks ago. This one popped up last week and we had a chance to check it out on Sunday at their open house. We went through it again yesterday with our realtor, who informed us that it already had one offer on it. So we had to act fast. We came up with an offer, submitted it and found out at 6ish last night that they accepted. We have an inspection on the house on Tuesday, and unless we find some major issues, we'll settle October 27th.

Anyway... check it out. It's the one at 45 Spencer Ave., Lancaster.
http://www.flexmls.com/cgi-bin/view.cgi?20080821014832919481000000&id=1&s=5

We are still kinda in shock, but really looking forward to making it our home.

pregnancy pics

hi girls!
Jaren was in town last weekend and took some pregnancy photos, check out her blog!
here
two posts about Chris and I, and therefore 2 posts with pictures of my belly!
much love, Jen

Just an update

Hi girls. I thought I'd write a quick update since no one has posted anything in so long. Ok, I guess it's just been a couple weeks, but still. I need my Sapphires updates!

Things are really starting to look up out here in California. I'm starting to find my way around a little better (although I did get pretty lost last week and had to call Adam for help). I joined the MOMS Club here (thanks to Julie's suggestion) and it has really been a Godsend. I've already met so many people and there are bajillions of kids Violet's age and playgroups and outings and just all kinds of stuff. We're also doing Gymboree, which is completely cute and ridiculous (singing songs about rolling balls back and forth) but Violet loves it, so we'll probably stick with it.

I've sort of resigned myself to the fact that we're going to be here for a while so I might as well make the best of it. We've been exploring a bunch and have found some really fun places. There are a lot of really kid-friendly things to do here, if you know where to look.

Adam's mom was just here for Labor Day, so we took her to Hollywood and some other touristy places. We also went to the zoo, which was great. We actually decided to become members, it was such a nice zoo.

We went to Colorado a couple weeks ago for family time and to go to Adam's high school reunion. It was a lot of fun meeting his high school friends and hearing crazy stories about him, although I temporarily forgot about the whole altitude and alcohol thing, so I was kind of worthless the day after.
We got to hang out with Jamie and Nick for an evening as well, which was so much fun. We also did a photo shoot with Violet and her cousins at the park and got some really cute shots. I just posted them on Flickr too, if you want to see more (and you know you do).


I'm still working on The Daily Puppy photos. I've also been getting some contract work from my old contacts at Onlineshoes, which has been great to help pay for trips and things, like the one coming up this month to Ohio.

Violet's pulling up on everything and "cruising" along the couch and furniture. She takes a few steps while holding on to our fingers. I think watching the bigger kids at playgroups really encourages her to try things, which is good and bad. I think she ate some bark yesterday.

Hope all is well with you girls. Love ya!

checking in

Hey Girls! I just thought I'd pop in quick and post a quick update. We're all doing pretty well around here. At least we are now... I got struck with the flu bug this past week. yuk! It was awful! I got sick on Thursday afternoon and spent the next two days with the horrible vomiting and diahrrea that goes along with the flu. I thought I was going to die. The stomach virus is significantly worse when you're pregnant I have discovered. (One of my friends here who was pregnant got the bug this week and it put her into labor, she had her baby at 36 weeks, which is ok but a little early). You just don't have the energy reserves to recuperate when you're pregnant. Today is the first day I'm feeling pretty good. By Saturday afternoon I was so weak I couldn't hold my head up and my blood pressure was dropping. So Josh brought home 2 liters of IV fluid and hooked me up to an IV drip to try to rehydrate me. It helped quite a bit. Josh got alarmed when he walked into the living room and found me laying on the couch with a half-eaten peanut butter and jelly sandwich sitting on my chest, dripping all over my shirt... and I didn't care. He had tried to carbo load me to boost my energy but I was too tired to keep lifting my arm up to eat my sandwich, so I just put it on my chest and went to sleep. I guess Josh decided that anytime I've suddenly lost my will to keep sticky peanut butter and jelly from staining my clothes and the couch... I must be seriously sick. =) That's when he put me on the IV drip. But the good news is that the kids didn't seem to really get it. They had a little diahrrea, but have been feeling pretty good. So, I think we're all past it now and hopefully won't deal with something like this again for the rest of this pregnancy. Other than that, everything has been good. Seth and Lilah are getting so big. Lilah is talking sooooo much now. She repeats everything and is adding to her vocabulary daily. It's nice because it helps cut down on her frustration level, so she doesn't scream as much. Seth is doing pretty well with the potty training (still won't poop in the potty very often, but we'll get there.) I'm going to send Seth to grandma's for a day so that I can work with Lilah on potty training to see how she does. She likes to wear pull-ups and LOVES to sit on the potty. She will often tell us when she's going to poop and even did it in the potty once. So, I think with some concentrated work, she might enjoy potty training. It would be really nice if the kids were both out of diapers before baby #3 comes along. She's a little young, so if it doesn't work out, we won't stress about it. But it might be worth a try. We still haven't picked a name for the next baby. Boy names are seeming to be difficult for us this time around. It looks like they will probably be inducing me on Nov. 17th (or right around then, at 38 weeks). That will be nice because we will have the baby before Thanksgiving that way.

So, speaking of books (Kim's blog)... I haven't read that one Kim, but maybe I will because I'm always looking for a good book. but I have been a reading a couple of non-fiction books lately that are really good that I have to recommend for those of you looking for a little self-help reading. =) haha... I just finished the book "Captivating" by John and Staci Eldridge the other day. I thought it was really good and especially valuable for moms who have daughters. It's the female counterpart for Wild at heart. It's a good reminder of how the female soul is kind of wired and how that relates to our personal walks with Christ and how to really reach our full potential as women of beauty in Christ. It was good. Some interesting insights. And now I'm reading "The Power of a Praying Wife" by Stormie Omartian. It's not a new book at all but I'm just now getting around to reading it. It's really good. It's a powerful reminder of how vital it really is for us as women to be bathing our husbands and families in prayer. I don't know about you guys, but my husband goes to a job every day and lives a life of stress that has a tendency to really beat the life out of him. He's faced with difficult situations daily and is constantly surrounded by opportunities to compromise or just grow apathetic in his walk with Christ or to allow his personal relationships to deteriorate. Josh needs to be covered in prayer and I think most men face the same kinds of things Josh does, just maybe in a different venue. Anyways, it's a really good book and it helps to put prayer into a more practical way so that it's easier to pray effectively. Well, this blog is way to long now. So I'm going to go do something more productive. =) Love you girls and I hope you are all doing well and enjoying the rest of your summer!

Vampires and werewolves ... oh my

Has anyone else read the Twilight series? I just finished Breaking Dawn, the last book that just came out last weekend, and Oh. My. Goodness. If anyone is looking for something to suck you out of reality for a few hours a day, these are the books to do it.